Tuesday, April 23, 2013

SS's Mom is a Complete Narcissist

 

In response to your email.

Dear Mom,
Just read the email that you sent to DH.  Let me just clarify and then I am done with you.  First, the school pictures were in SS’s bag for several days.  I do not know why you did not get to see them, I honestly thought that you had.  If I am wrong then you have my apologies for that.  None the less, I truly thought that you had seen them.  At any rate, when you saw me Monday at school, I had dropped off the photos off with Mrs. Byrd because it was my fault that they were not in SS’s bag on Friday so that he could turn them in, I didn’t want Mrs. Byrd asking SS for them/money and then putting undue stress on him.  That is all, nothing more, nothing less, just trying to make things easier for SS, period.  No maliciousness involved, simply trying to do the right thing.

Now, you actually think that I am jealous of you.  Seriously, seriously Mom.  I am not jealous of you, not one bit.  You and I were getting along just fine, until the other year, (last year? Not checking dates.) When you asked for us to send SS’s clothes back and you did not reciprocate, that bothered me so being the person that I am, I asked you about it, then got a lie in reply that you never said that, both SS and DH said that you asked for the return of the clothes.  That angered me, yes, angered me, it was not about the clothes, not at all, just about reciprocity, do unto others, you’ve heard of that, yes?
As written before, we were getting along until that, we had both asked for forgiveness for past wrongs, and forgiveness we received.  Only I didn’t receive it, not fully, because after that incident, you began to bring all past transgressions back, apropos of nothing.  It is my understanding of the Bible and God based on my upbringing, that once transgressions are forgiven, truly forgiven, they are not brought up again.  Perhaps I am wrong. 
Again, after that incident, DH and I both received many an email from you with much nastiness and name calling.  Once they started I was done with you.  DONE.  Your emails are mean, nasty, and totally UNCHRISTIAN (walk the walk honey if you are going to talk the talk).  I find it amusing how you want to be an inspiration to people, how great you think God is, how we should all be forgiving, etc.  Funny, I wonder if those same people read the nasty, mean, swearing emails that are sent to us (seemingly on a regular basis) what those same people would think of you. 
Jealous, no, I think not.  You are SS’s mother, I respect that, but that is all.  That is ALL.  I do not wish to be around you, see you, or hear you.  You make my stomach turn and my skin crawl with the skiviness that is you, that is solely based on your behavior.  Your behavior.  Your behavior.  Own it. Own it.  Go back and re-read your emails of the last year, read them. 
I do not wish to be SS’s mother, I have a child that I gave birth to, so I do know what it is to be a parent, I’ve been one for going on 24 years now, so I get it!  I simply love SS, as if he were my flesh and blood, and try to treat him that way.  With so much negativity surrounding being a stepparent in the media, Disney films etc., I am just trying to be a positive influence in his life, help him when he needs it, but trying to be his mother, no way, not a chance.  SS loves you more than life itself, I happen to think that is amazing, and wonderful!  SS is a very lucky kid, he is surrounded by love and I would think that you would be pleased about that.  Oh, well, wrong I am.
This is the absolute LAST correspondence from me that you will receive, if you respond, I will simply file it away with the other insanity that we have.   I am writing now, to ask you to NOT write to me (you can’t because you are blocked from my account) or about me, call me (you can’t as you have been blocked from calling my phone) or in any way shape or form contact me.  To do so will violate this request.

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